wisdom is proven by her children

sometimes you make a decision which you didn't want to have to make, but you finally were uncomfortable enough with the status quo to actually do something about it. Then you worry and fret and even whine to your friends and spouse and others that maybe this is a mistake. The pain you have come to accept is a comforting blanket which keeps you from having to deal with your destiny and what it will really take to get there.

So you start to bargain in your mind and then you feel foolish about that but you really can't see how such a drastic decision could be right. Maybe its not fair to the other parties it will affect? Maybe it will bring terrrible consequences? What if, what if, what if????

Then the very reason you had to finally make that decision does you a truly good favor and rears its foolish head in ways you probably didn't even consider when you made the decision to move on, or move forward or change things. Then wisdom prevails and you realize that yes, you did a wise thing by making the hard decision, because that person, place or thing which has caused so much harm will finally be out of your life and you will have the scars to help you remember and not make that same mistake again.

its extremely hard to trade the current, now comfortable pain for God knows what is coming. But once you start the process you will feel better. Trust me.